What is succeed?

Have you ever thought that you succeed is to be popular?

Or perhaps have a lot of money?

Or do not have any problems?

What exactly is for you, succeed?

The other day, watching a video of Raimon Samsó Raimon Samsó, said:

success is having the life you want.

This sentence made me spin, several of the beliefs that we usually have associated with success, as you said before.

So, if I ask you: Do you have success in your life?

I want you to think about:

Do you choose the life you have?

Because it could be that for a person, success is to be famous and have a lot of money, but like everything in life, each situation has its advantages and disadvantages.

For example, if you are very famous, your intimacy becomes of interest and public domain, and that may be a price that not everyone wants to pay.

Or, if you are a businessman who earns a lot of money with your company, but you have to work 16 hours a day … then you can have all the money in the world but … where time is for your personal or family life?

However, in my mind, I found this idea that succeed = be popular and have a lot of money … and I wonder Is also do you have?

Who put this idea in our head?

I know a person who, for her, success was going to live in a small house away from the city and educate their children at home. It not that especially has a lot of money, but that was the life she chose. And he loves it.

I know someone who, what most excites you in life is travel, so it works for most of the year until getting enough money to go each time to a different country. And the savings spent during the year on your journey. And that makes you happy.

The key is to choose

Occasionally, it’s okay that we seem to reflect on what it means for us to succeed.

What you want to happen in your life?

What makes you feel good?

What things you enjoy?

What is important to you?

Which are your values? Your life agrees with them?

Design a lifestyle takes time

Choosing is to take an internal decision that sets the course of your life.

But as I always say, the election is only the first step.

Once you are clear about the kind of life you want, it will issue to start changing what you do not like, and start acting, to introduce into your life what you want.

Let’s get to the practical.

I propose to you an EXERCISE:

1. Write in a piece of paper something, if possible “small”, that there is in your life, you do not want it to be.

It can be from something material, as an object, to staff something you do not like, for example, your impatience, your requirement …

2. Choose what you do want in your life (which would be successful for you), and also put it in writing.

When writing things, we make clearer to our mind and we will do.

Also, you can always hang the paper somewhere where you can see it, and do not forget your choices.

3. What prevented you, so far, getting that you want?

The idea is to locate your obstacles and difficulties. 

Sometimes you do not know what to do, but others know and you do not get to carry it out and even you can also start it and then leave. 

Or, you could not advance what you want, for fear of the reaction of others.

What’s your brake?

Here again, I ask you to write.

4. Who or what could help you get what you want?

If you can not alone, you get help.

There are many people around you to ask how you can do them.

And it begins to ask you to know, if they have a referral from someone who is already living what you want.

There is a popular saying that says “ who seeks finds”.

So, start looking for how to enter into your life what you want, and find a way.

5. Make a small action plan

I want you to make a small list of actions or tasks that take you to get succeed in your life.

That success that you have chosen.

But you have to turn it into action.

Otherwise, the target is too far away, and not it possible to get.

But if you divide it into small steps, each of them will come near your goal.

6. When you’ve got, you send me an email and tell me. 

Or, you can also explain to someone what you wish and every 15 days IRLE reporting your achievements.

Do you commit with me to have the life you want?

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