Today I want to talk about another book of those who “leave their mark” and that, after reading it, I recommend to everyone, because they go to the folder “books
They changed my life “and, especially, how to look.
This is the book of Marta Ligioiz, flight course for dream builders.
This book, besides being novel type and, therefore, easy to read, offers many important lessons for life, for example, that:
- 0.1 The complaint does not take you anywhere
- 0.2 BUT there is everything to do
- 0.3 THE PROCESS OF MAKING DREAMS WISHES
- 0.4 When you have decided to fulfill your dream, you find a way to get
- 0.5 What is this dream that you carry forward so long?
- 1 3 Foolproof Steps to learn to Say No and Earn People's respect
The complaint does not take you anywhere
Have you ever heard talking about it?
How long your conversations spend to complain?
We do not realize, but we often complain about everything.
Work, boss, time, politicians, partner, children, friends, fatigue, house chores, food … complaints about any topic is incredible.
But you do not realize that the complaint only helps to increase that portion of negative thoughts that do not do you any good.
For when you are complaining you are not looking for solutions.
When you complain about how bad you are or how bad jobs, relationships or the world, you can not see any possibility of change, because your mind is focused on the negative.
In this book, he starts talking about a girl who complains about everything. Your partner, you do not have money, your life … and yet does absolutely nothing to change.
Somehow it has been accommodated in the complaint and has convinced herself that there is nothing to do.
BUT there is everything to do
The book takes her to rethink some aspects of herself and her way of seeing life.
Gradually, the character begins to do things you have not done before, and obtains new results:
- it points to a course at a civic center, which introduces new people in your life
- It is offered to her friends to care for their children if they want a night out, allowing you to get some money and start having some autonomy
At one point the book a “threat between life and death” appears.
She always complained that he had no money to travel, is in a situation in which, according to the book, if you do not travel that much-desired, may die.
Just then, puts the batteries and begins to search for information on travel agencies, different payment methods can be performed, etc.
What at one time was an impossible mountain to climb, it is becoming another affordable and scalable.
THE PROCESS OF MAKING DREAMS WISHES
This book I consider it as one of the books that changed my life because it taught me that if you have a dream, you just have to take steps to make it happen.
Of course, a dream or a desire to be realistic.
How many times do you live your desires as something distant and impossible?
How many times do you tell yourself: This is my dream and I will do this, that and the other to get it?
No, do not do this second.
Do you do to look there, in the distance, and self-convince you that it is impossible or never make it.
Because you do not take the trouble to inform really what resources, actions and need money to carry it out.
If you did this more often, you’d have so many dreams and desires or would mental folder “made”.
When you have decided to fulfill your dream, you find a way to get
The book also talks about another of his dreams and how, gradually, begin to appear in your life “coincidences” of encounters with people and resources that help you achieve your purpose.
I’ll leave the link to Amazon, to facilitate the process, if you want to buy the book. I am affiliated, but you can buy anywhere.
What happens is that for a time, ask in bookstores and was discontinued. It has made me very excited to find on Amazon, because that, and I can recommend it again.
What is this dream that you carry forward so long?
I’ll give you an example of how I made one of my dreams:
Before making a career in psychology, I took the title of Technician in Dietetics and Nutrition. I wanted to teach children in schools, to eat healthily, but in a fun way.
So a friend of mine who is a therapist and at that time was offering training in therapeutic theater, I suggested that the course could help me and give me tools and theatrical techniques.
In that course, I met another girl who had worked doing workshops with children and explained my proposal. She told me that if I found something, she would do it with me.
That calmed me a lot because, at that time, I wasn’t able to do it alone. So between us, we did a PowerPoint and structured a bit the workshop we wanted to do.
I did not know where to look or where to offer our workshop, so I began to call different kinds of bodies: The Generalitat de Catalunya, the Education Department, the public health agency …
In all these places I was told they do not offer workshops, which offered already covered, but the important thing is that gradually were giving me information on how working workshops in schools and also sometimes gave me phones of people who could better inform me.
I called many places, but after one year, and “those coincidences of life,” arrived at the right place, at the right place at the right time and got a 1-year contract with Barcelona Provincial Council to making workshop nutrition education through theater, which had so long desired to make.
And I fulfilled my dream. (For the next six years)
So, from my own experience, I can say that a dream accompanied by action, becomes reality.
And maybe because of one of those books that changed my life, I’ve been able to change the perception of the things and accomplish my wishes.
I propose a CHALLENGE:
Tell me something I want and explain the information you obtained with 3 of your actions.
I hope your comments.